I feared the worst when my oldest whispered, “Daddy told us not to tell you who came over.” It turned out my husband was planning a surprise renovation, but we quickly realized that teaching children to keep secrets from a parent can cause fear and confusion instead of joy.
By the time our youngest turned four, I couldn’t remember the last afternoon that belonged entirely to me. Someone always needed a snack. A ride to soccer. Help with homework. …
I feared the worst when my oldest whispered, “Daddy told us not to tell you who came over.” It turned out my husband was planning a surprise renovation, but we quickly realized that teaching children to keep secrets from a parent can cause fear and confusion instead of joy. Read More